The recent death of Nex Benedict, a 16-year-old non-binary student in Owasso, Oklahoma, has thrown a spotlight on the critical issue of mental health struggles faced by LGBTQ+ youth.
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| Nex Benedict poses outside the family’s home in Owasso, Okla., in December 2023(Sue Benedict via AP, File). |
While the medical examiner ruled the cause of death as suicide by overdose, the events leading up to it paint a disturbing picture of bullying and the vulnerability of LGBTQ+ students.
Nex, who used they/them pronouns, reportedly got into an altercation with three girls in a school restroom. Family members allege that Nex was bullied due to their gender identity. This incident, tragically, unfolded against an environment of rising concerns about the mental health of LGBTQ+ youth in the United States.
Studies have consistently shown that LGBTQ+ youth are at a significantly higher risk for depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation compared to their heterosexual and cisgender peers.
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| The Trevor Project |
The Trevor Project, a leading organization focused on suicide prevention among LGBTQ+ youth, reports that LGBTQ youth are four times more likely to attempt suicide than their straight counterparts. This alarming statistic shows the urgent need for increased focus on mental health support for this vulnerable population.
A Higher Suicide Risk Among LGBTQ+ Youth
There are several factors contributing to the higher suicide risk among LGBTQ+ youth. Bullying and harassment based on sexual orientation and gender identity are significant contributors.
A 2019 study by the National Center for Education Statistics found that nearly one-third of LGBTQ+ students reported being bullied at school in the previous year. Schools may not have adequate anti-bullying policies or procedures in place to address the specific needs of LGBTQ+ students, leaving them feeling isolated and unsafe.
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| Mental health is a crucial issue among LGBTQ+ students |
Furthermore, societal stigma and discrimination can take a toll on mental health. LGBTQ+ youth may face rejection from family, friends, or religious communities, leading to feelings of isolation and despair. Limited access to affirming healthcare services can further exacerbate these issues.
The story of Nex Benedict serves as a stark reminder of the consequences of inaction. While the exact details surrounding their death are still emerging, the reported bullying incident highlights the need for schools to create safe and inclusive environments for all students, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.
This includes implementing comprehensive anti-bullying policies with a focus on LGBTQ+ inclusion, providing staff training on recognizing and addressing bullying based on sexual orientation and gender identity, and fostering a culture of respect and acceptance.
Meanwhile, Nex Benedict(16) was awarded Grand Marshall posthumously at this year’s 37th annual Oklahoma City Pride Parade.
“This year’s Grand Marshall is Nex Benedict. Nex was tragically lost from our community this year. OKC Pride chose to honor their memory with this posthumous recognition,” OKC Pride Inc. posted Saturday night.
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| Nex Benedict was awarded Grand Marshall posthumously at the Oklahoma City Pride Parade. |
Grand Marshall involves a person selected by the group or a leader to represent the event as a whole. The parade route wrapped around Oklahoma near 39th Street and had thousands out celebrating as well as marching.
Attention to LGBTQ+ Youth
Beyond schools, creating a more supportive society for LGBTQ+ youth is crucial. This includes disassembling negative stereotypes, promoting the visibility of LGBTQ+ individuals in media and public spaces, and advocating for policies that protect LGBTQ+ rights.
Additionally, ensuring access to mental health professionals who are qualified in working with LGBTQ+ youth is essential. Organizations like The Trevor Project and GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network) provide valuable resources and support for LGBTQ+ youth and their families.
The tragedy of Nex Benedict's death is a call to action. By recognizing the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ youth, implementing better support systems in schools and communities, and encouraging a more inclusive society, we can take steps to prevent similar tragedies from occurring.
Every life lost to suicide is a life too many. We owe it to our youth, including LGBTQ+ youth, to create a world where they feel safe, accepted, and empowered to thrive.